Category: Living the Life

I seriously can’t believe my lack of posting the last couple of weeks.  Something in dee-land must be off.  Oh, I remember.  I’ve been busier than ever and I feel like crap.  All week long people have been asking if I feel any better and unfortunately I do not.  If anything, I’m actually feeling worse.  It seems like every time I have something fun planned, I get sick.  The last time I got really sick was right before our Hawaii vacation.  The time before that?  The night before I was supposed to leave for Portland.  So what is happening this time?  Hubby and I’s 5-year anniversary on Friday, a kid-free night (and morning to sleep in!), and Rockfest (an all-day concert) on Saturday.  And I feel like crap.  My nose is runny.  My head is stuffed up and achy.  My throat is getting sore from the coughing.  All I really want to do is spend the next few days in bed.  Standing up for more than 10 minutes or so pretty much wipes out any energy that I have.  I think it will be an excellent weekend.

Along with my sickness woes, some pretty crappy things have been going on around KC.  The first I’m sure many of you have heard about (and many have already blogged about).  An 18-year-old girl, Kelsey Smith,  was abducted at a local Target and killed.  Her body was found just a few miles from my house.  The Target store she was taken from just happens to be my favorite in the area and is one that I go to frequently.  It really has me thinking about how careless I can be at times.  I tend to believe in the general good of others but when things like this happen it tends to freak me out a bit.  I’ll definitely be a little more careful the next time I’m out shopping.

The second incident occurred yesterday.  A man came home to his house in a ritzy neighborhood for lunch and apparently interrupted a burglar who was there.  Shots were fired and the man was later found in a pool of blood on his driveway by a neighbor.  Fortunately, he is doing ok.  I realize that things like this happen every day in cities and towns across the country, but this time it happened to someone I know.  The man is a lawyer who my boss and others in this office do business with frequently.  I certainly don’t know him well, but have had interactions with him for over 5 years now.  It just brings it all a little closer to home, ya know? 

I think I’ll go home tonight, check the locks behind me, and hug my little family a little tighter.  You never know what might happen tomorrow.

It never ceases to amaze me how quickly time flies by.  I spend the entire year looking forward to the summer months and then end up being so busy that I don’t get to enjoy them much.  I cannot believe that we are already into June.  The next two weekends are already booked up, then Zach’s birthday and party are at the end of the month.  Before I know it we’ll be into July.  I am looking forward to July, but it will be busy as well with a weekend trip to Springfield for the annual family 4th of July bash and then off to Alabama for a week to hang out with the in-laws.  A week of swimming, relaxing, and limited internet connectivity will do me a lot of good though.  I really want to find some time for a weekend getaway to the lake as well.  Maybe in August?

This weekend left me totally exhausted and feeling a little ill.  I was up until almost 1:00 a.m. Friday night getting things sorted and set out for the garage sale.  Just as I was finally falling asleep, my nephew woke up crying.  I jumped up to get him before he woke Zach up.  I ended up putting him to bed with my mom (who was also staying over) and getting back to sleep just in time for Zach to wake up crying.  I couldn’t settle him down so he ended up coming back to my bed with me.  I think I might have gotten about 3 hours of sleep before my alarm went off at 6:00.  As much as I wanted to stay in bed, I made myself get up.  I still had to post sale signs around the neighborhood and pull the tables out of the garage for the early birds.

The garage sale wasn’t a huge success, although I guess it depends on how you look at it.  I ended up making about $60, and my sister made about $40.  Some of the bigger items that I thought would go pretty quickly did not go at all and some of the junk that I didn’t expect to sell was picked up right away.  Go figure.  I’ve still got two strollers, a TV, foosball table, guitar and amp, and an old computer sitting around that I would love to get rid of.  I didn’t really expect the foosball table or the guitar to sell as I’m not willing to give them up without getting some money out of them, but I would practically give the TV and computer away if anyone wanted them.  I was also really surprised that the baby items didn’t sell well.  Those usually go pretty quick at garage sales.  I’m thinking next time around I’ll just donate what I can and trash the rest.  It was entirely too much work for the $60 I made.

What I did end up with after the weekend, was a massive sinus headache and a queasy stomach.  I’m pretty sure that is the result of forgetting to take my allergy meds all weekend while digging around in a dusty basement and garage for two days.  I’m not sure about the stomach thing, but with all of the sick kids I’ve been around in the last couple of weeks I could have caught anything.  I’m feeling pretty miserable today but hopefully I can get some rest tonight and get myself back on track.  The good news is that Zach seems to be getting over his illness, except for a bit of a lingering cough.

In between garage sale customers and during some down time Sunday night, I also got some knitting done.  I finished up another baby blanket with plenty of yarn to spare, so now I’m trying to figure out what else I can make to go along with it.  I’ll definitely be making a hat to match the blanket but I might decide to try something new as well.  I’ve been really getting anxious to try something different with my knitting.  The blanket ended up a bit shorter than the last one I made and is more of a square instead of a rectangle shape.  I prefer the square shape and hope that the new mommy will love it too.

Can anybody tell me where May went?  I seem to have missed it.

Zach is feeling better and the fever is finally staying down today.

Tomorrow we are having one massive garage sale at my house.

Hopefully by the end of the weekend I’ll have some time to post again.

See you all on the flip-side.

It always seems that when I have the most to write about I don’t have any time to write it.  I have all kinds of things I want to say about my weekend with Not So Pregnant and Zac, meeting Caroline and Average Jane, and Zachary turning 23 months old (and the impending 2nd birthday party).  However, a sick kid and a surprise visit from my cousin last night have been keeping me a little tied up.  As soon as I get away from work tonight I’m heading up to my sister’s house to either pick Zach up or spend a couple hours hanging out with him before leaving him there another night.  It all depends on whether he has kicked the fever and can go to day care tomorrow or not.  (And can I just say how awesome it is to have a sister that is off work for the summer who is more than willing to keep my sick kid for me?)  Hopefully, once Zach is feeling better I’ll have a little time to catch up on my blogging and upload the rest of the pictures from the weekend, but until then you’ll just have to be satisfied with this:

Is it just me or is that just about the cutest face ever?

First, a little housekeeping note.  I’ve decided to change the way I respond to comments.  Instead of replying in e-mails I’m going to reply in the comments section for a while.  I’ve been thinking about doing this for a while now and decided to just give it a little bit of a trial.  I may still respond to some of you with e-mail if I feel it requires a more personal response, but I would like to see if this creates a little more conversation.  If I decide I don’t like it, I’ll go back to e-mail.  If any of you regualar commenters has a personal preference, feel free to let me know.

Now that that’s done, on to the good stuff.  NSP did make it in last night and I couldn’t be more happy.  Instead of feeling like I was meeting some stranger, it felt like I was picking up an old friend from the airport last night.  It is amazing the comfort level I have with her (and other bloggers).  My family and friends keep questioning me about bringing someone I don’t know into my home and my response is, “But I do know her.”  The whole thing just feels so oddly comfortable it is almost scary.

On the drive back to my house last night, NSP and I were discussing some other KC bloggers that we would both like to meet and realized that we should organize a little blogger meet-up this weekend while she’s in town.  We already have a baby-sitter lined up for Saturday night and had plans to go out so we figured anyone who wants to could just come meet up with us.  It will be very informal, but if you are interested, we’ll be at Danny’s Bar and Grill in Lenexa (13350 College Blvd.).  We plan to arrive around 8:00 p.m. and stay until things die down or we get bored.  There will be live rock music starting around 10:00 with Black Oblivion and my friends Dora Dank.  If you plan to come out, please leave a comment or shoot me a quick e-mail so I know to look for you.

I’m having a really hard time sitting still today.  It is kind of dark and gloomy outside and the weather forecasters are calling for rain, but even that isn’t getting me down.

A while back (I can’t even remember how long ago really) I came across a blog and got instantly sucked into it.  It was the blog of a single mom struggling with parenting, dating, and everything else that life brings.  I suppose the thing that really got me hooked was that she has a son named Zachary that is only a few weeks younger than my Zach.  One day I decided to leave a comment on one of her posts.  Shortly after that we started e-mailing each other.  Then we moved on to IM’s and even a few phone calls now and then.  Now my day just doesn’t feel complete unless we’ve at least chatted for a few minutes and checked in with each other.

I read blogs every day and have many friendships with people whose faces I have never seen.  We converse, we support each other, we laugh, and even sometimes cry at each others’ posts.  We form true bonds and friendships through the shiny computer screen, but at the end of the day those people are hundreds or even thousands of miles away.

Tonight I will finally meet Not So Pregnant and her beautiful son Zac in person.  They are coming up to KC for the weekend and I can barely contain my excitement.  It is a bit scary to be meeting someone that I feel like I know so well already.  While I am a tad bit nervous, I really have no doubts that we will get along wonderfully.  I keep thinking about meeting Amanda  last October and how easy and comfortable it was to talk to her when she visited. 

Besides the fact that I finally get to meet NSP, Zach and Zac will finally meet as well.  I really hope that they have a great time playing together and I guarantee there will be plenty of cute pictures to share when the weekend is over.

As I write this post I have myself wondering why I have never met up with any local KC bloggers.  Perhaps someday I will get over my shyness and social awkwardness and try to set something up.  I can think of at least four of you I read on a daily basis that I would love to meet.  Anyone interested?