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This picture has nothing to do with the post that follows, but isn’t he cute?

I decided to take it easy and relax again lastnight.  I know that I should have been getting some things done, but I just could not motivate myself to do anything.  So instead, I chose to sit on my butt in front of the tv most of the night.  Instead of stressing about all of the things I need to get done before we leave Saturday morning, I’m choosing to just ignore it.  That means that I’ll be freaking out about this time on Thursday when I realize just how little time I have left.

About the only thing I’ve been thinking of in preparation for our trip is what music I need to have loaded up on my mp3 player to get me through the week.  Obviously, this is the most important thing.  Who needs clothes when you can listen to music?  Of course I’ll have my trusty Pearl Jam, KT Tunstall, and some Jack Johnson, but I’m not sure what else.  What music gets you in the mood for sun, sand, and Hawaiian beaches?

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Comment Contest!

I apologize in advance for posting about leaving comments twice in one day, but I think this is one you’ll want to know about.  451 Press is holding a commenting contest from now through January 31st.  If you leave a comment on any 451 Press blog (a quality comment) you are automatically entered into a random drawing.  One lucky commenter will win $500 and five other commenters will win $100 each.  You can read the details here.

Seriously, this is such an easy way to get some fast cash and maybe recover a little from the holidays.  Why not jump on over to 451 Press now and leave some comments?  You can start at Tot TV Watch (shameless plug) and then check out some of the other great blogs over there.  Who knows?  You might just find some new daily reads.

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De-Lurking Week

January 8-12 is De-Lurking Week.  You know what that means, right?  That means that when you read a blog you must leave a comment.  I know it’s hard to always leave a comment because I’m probably one of the worst lurkers out there, but I’m going to try to leave at least one comment on every blog I read this week.  I know there are some of you out there reading that don’t comment so why not go ahead and de-lurk today?  And, while you’re at it, go over to Miss Zoot’s page and leave a comment for a good cause.

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Reflecting

It is 11:05 p.m. and the only sounds I hear are the ticking of the clock in the corner and an occasional car passing by.  Even the animals are asleep as I sit here in silence.  I don’t want to go to bed because I know what tomorrow brings.  I want this moment, this peace, to last forever.

As my eyes grow heavy, I reflect on the weekend and how I did things on my terms.  Friday I declined an invitation to a friend’s house, electing instead to stay home with Zach so he could rest and recover from his illness.  Other than a little bit of necessary shopping, I stayed home on Saturday as well.  I played with my son.  I spent some time writing articles for my other blog.  I watched some TV.  I finished knitting a hat and started on another one.  I put together Zach’s new stroller.  I went to bed when I felt like it and I started reading a book.  I even called my dad and told him we wouldn’t be at church or dinner afterwards on Sunday because we all needed to stay home to rest and recover from our illnesses.  I spent the day Sunday relaxing and enjoying myself.  I didn’t even leave my house and it was wonderful.

This weekend was exactly what I needed.  There were so many things I could have been doing but I chose to let myself relax.  I am proud of myself.  I think the hardest task I did all weekend was cooking dinner on Sunday night.

The only disappointment is that it cannot last.  When I fall asleep it will be over and the chaos of a new week will begin.  Hubby and I will return to work.  Zach will go back to day care, but not without a  fight that will drain me before my day even really begins.  The evening will be filled with chores and planning for our trip next week.  But, at least there is the promise of next week-6 days in sunny paradise to look forward to. 

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18 Months

Dear Zachary,

A couple of weeks ago you turned 18 months old. With all of the holiday chaos and the illnesses around our house lately I haven’t had the time to sit down and reflect on your last month. I’m sure you have done some pretty amazing things that I need to record before I forget them.

Probably the biggest thing that happened in the last month was that I went out of town and left you alone with Daddy for four days. I knew that Daddy could handle you while I was gone, but I had a hard time being away from you for that long. One night away is bad enough, but I had to go to bed three nights in a row without any kisses or hugs from my little man. The worst part of it was that I ended up being sick the whole time so I couldn’t even drown my sorrows in a margarita (not that you should ever do that). I did have a great time on my trip but I don’t think I have ever been more happy to be home.

The weekend before I went to Portland, we helped your cousin Ryan celebrate his 2nd Birthday, which only served to remind me of how quickly you’ll be arriving at that milestone. I can’t believe how fast the two of you are growing up. It is so much fun to watch you play together. I realize that you aren’t actually playing together yet but you do manage to keep each other busy. When you aren’t fighting over toys you seem to have a really good time.

Celebrating Christmas was really fun with you this year. We spent Christmas morning at home, but also spent some time at both Grandpa and Grandma’s houses. You must have been a very good little boy this past year because you ended up with tons of new toys. You seemed to enjoy ripping the paper off to find out what was inside, but after a while you got bored and Mommy had to help you a little bit. Everyone must have known how much you love Elmo because he now has a very prominant presence in our home.

Over the last month of so you have developed quite a fascination with kids that are older than you. You’ve always loved playing with your cousin Dylan, but now you get excited any time you are around kids that age. I even bribed you to quit screaming in the car the other day by telling you that we were going to see J at day care.

You continue to amaze me daily by your amazing sense of balance, the many words you can say, and your ability to actually understand what I am saying to you. You seem to be quite an intelligent little boy (I guess you do take after your mom!). You still love to climb and tend to freak people out that aren’t used to watching you climb on things. While I do have to rescue you from time to time when you get too high, I usually leave you alone and let you explore. Your favorite place lately to climb is onto the kitchen table which isn’t really such a good thing.

You are also getting a little bit better at coloring without eating the crayons. I had to take the crayons away for a while because I was tired of fishing little colored pieces out of your clenched teeth. Either I’m getting better at stopping you before you get them to your mouth or you are doing better at using them for their intended purpose because most of your current crayons still have tips on them.

You are starting to get a little more coordinated with using a spoon and fork but still prefer to use your hands for most things. Much of your meal still ends up on your lap, but progress is progress, right? Your favorite food is now cheese. You will go to the refrigerator, hold onto both handles and yell "cheese!" until someone comes in to get you a piece. You will also ask for "wa-wa" (water), juice, drink, and "bob-bob" (SpongeBob fruit snacks) when you want them.

I usually end this with something mushy, to tell you just how much I love you. But all I can think of right now, is that I must be one of the luckiest mom’s in the world to have a son like you. Not a single day goes by that I’m not thankful that you are part of my life.

Love always,
Mama

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Lazy Weekend

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There has been no puke for 24 hours now.  Zach seems to be in a much better mood and I am actually getting to relax a bit this weekend.  We went out for a little bit this morning to return a purchase and do some shopping.  Zach got a brand new stroller for the trip to Hawaii because he has outgrown the cheapie one that we bought when he was a baby.   This one should be much more comfortable for him and also will work with our infant seat if/when we have another baby.

jan_07 018While Hubby and I finished watching the last 5 episode’s of Grey’s Anatomy lastnight (because I finally caved and bought them off of iTunes so we could get all caught up) I finished my very first knitting project.  I started with a hat because I thought it would be fairly easy but it seemed to take me forever to finish it.  I think I started it over Thanksgiving and just now finally got it finished.  It turned out pretty good, but is a little too big for Zach’s head.  I suppose he’ll grow into it eventually.

A week from today we’ll be leaving to go to Hawaii and I’m finally getting a little bit excited.  I’m really dreading the flights there and back because I have no idea how I’m going to entertain Zach that long.  But, once we get there I know I’ll really enjoy it.  I also have a feeling that the warm weather and sunshine will do wonders for my mood even if I do have to be seen in a swim suit and shorts.  At least I can wear my flip-flops without my toes freezing!

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