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Month: August 2007

I Win The Bad Parent Award For The Day

So the boy is sick.  He came home with a runny nose last night.  By bed time it was pretty much gushing, instead of running.  He had no other symptoms of illness, so I doped him up with some Benadryl and put him to bed.  He woke up happy this morning, although with a bit of a runny nose still.  I wasn’t quite sure whether to send him to school or not.  He was a little mopey, but I hated to keep him home for a runny nose.  I checked for a fever, but he didn’t have one so I gave him some Claritin that would last through the day and sent him off to school.

Monday at Zach’s school is promotion day.  All of the kids will be moving up to the next class level.  To celebrate, the toddler classrooms had a Parent’s lunch today so the parents could come in and meet the new teachers, visit the classrooms, etc.

When I arrived for lunch, Zach was sitting at his table (playing with his plate) quietly.  He was excited when he saw me, but immediately told me he wanted to go.  I didn’t think much of it since that’s always the first thing out of his mouth when I get there in the evenings to pick him up. 

I sat down with him to eat lunch, but he wasn’t eating.  He drank a couple of cups of red kool-aid but didn’t want any food at all.  I asked him if his tummy hurt but he said no, then a few seconds later he nodded his head yes.  He was a little clingy, but still acting ok, so I sat down to eat some lunch.

I kept trying to convince him to eat, but he still refused.  Just as I was taking a bite of my chicken wing, all of the boy’s red kool-aid came right back up.  It was like a red kool-aid fountain that sprayed all over my plate, my clothes, Zach’s clothes, and eventually landed in the floor.  (Seriously, think Exorcist, but red instead of green)  It took me a few seconds before I actually realized what had happened and could react.  I figured it all out just in time for the second round.

I finally managed to get up out of my seat and get Zach to the bathroom where I cleaned him up and changed his clothes.  By the time we got back, the teachers had cleaned up the rest of the mess.  I tried to apologize, thinking that I somehow should have predicted this and gotten him out of there earlier.  Then I found out that three other kids had already gone home today with the same thing.  Apparently this is what I have to look forward to now that he’s in a bigger day care setting.

The fact that he’s sick isn’t really that big of a deal.  Kids get sick.  I realize this.  What I am hating right now is that I ignored my instinct to keep him home this morning and sent him to school even though I knew he wasn’t feeling well.  I should have paid attention to my gut instinct, instead of worrying about getting to work.  I guess next time I’ll know better.

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Routine or Chaos?

I’m not altogether sure whether it is the lack of activity in my life right now or the busy summer that has been keeping me from writing lately.  I feel like I am so busy all the time, yet when I sit down to think about what I might write about I can’t think of a single interesting thing.  Life just seems a little boring and routine right now.  Perhaps I just haven’t had enough time to let my mind wander lately.  I miss writing daily, but at the same time I have enjoyed the break from the computer screen.  Hopefully things will start picking back up around here soon.  In the meantime, here’s what’s been happening.

It seems like it has been a year, but in reality, for about the last 6 weeks or so my office has been in the middle of a remodeling project.  During that time, all of my stuff has been packed away, with only the essentials crammed into the corner of my mom’s office where I’ve been working on a tiny little typewriter table.  It hasn’t been miserable, but it certainly isn’t the ideal working situation.  The end of the project is drawing near, and now that I can see a light at the end of the tunnel, it is getting harder and harder to work in my little corner of someone else’s office.  When all is said and done, I’ll have my very own office with 4 walls and a door (for the first time in my life).  My boss even agreed to let me have a lock on the door so that after the baby is born I’ll be able to pump with a little privacy.  That fact alone makes it all worthwhile.  The carpeting goes in next week and if all goes well, by the following Monday I’ll be able to move in.  I can hardly stand the wait now.

I am finally over the illness from hell and feeling much better.  I ate my first full meal in almost a week today and it was so good that I totally overstuffed myself and have been paying for it ever since.  I’ll have to back off a bit for the rest of the week to make up for what I ate today.  Since discovering that I am pregnant, I’ve been changing my diet up a bit.  Instead of all of the diet drinks and low-fat or no-fat foods that I usually have (trying desperately to stick to my defunct WW diet), I’m trying to do about half and half.  I’m still sucking down my Crystal Light like crazy, but I’m also trying to drink more plain water and letting myself have a regular soda every once in a while instead of drinking 2 or 3 Coke Zeros a day.  I’m also cutting the caffeine quite a bit so the sugar helps pep me up a little when I need it.  Instead of Lean Cuisine for lunch every day, I’ll throw in a Red Baron pizza or some mac ‘n’ cheese a couple times a week.  The baby needs some fat, right?  Oh, and the 2% chocolate milk?  It is so on!  Don’t get me wrong, I’m still watching the weight gain.  I gained 30 pounds when I was pregnant with Zach and I’m trying to keep this one at less than 30 (preferably around 20), so I still have to watch myself.

Zach is doing much better at his new day care.  This morning, we stopped by his old day care provider’s house (because she called and tempted me with warm Monkey Bread!) for a few minutes before going to his “school” to drop him off.  The whole time we were at her house he was very clingy, refusing to let go of me even for a minute.  As we were leaving, I asked him if he was ready to go to school and he actually smiled and said, “Yes!”  When we got there, he went right in, told me good-bye and joined his class.  For the first time, his teacher didn’t have to hold him while I walked away.  As I turned to peek one last time, he was standing there smiling.  For the first time I really felt like I made the right decision.  Next week he’ll be promoting into the next higher 2-year-old class, so hopefully that won’t be too hard on him.  He seems to be excited about it for now.  Once he adjusts to that, maybe we can start working on all the other things that he has been regressing on lately (like potty training, that damn pacifier, and sleeping at night).

That’s about all I can come up with for tonight.  It’s late, Hubby disappeared and left me mostly in the dark about an hour ago, and the caffeine buzz from my first Coke all week is starting to wear off.  I suppose that means it’s time for bed.

p.s.  I’ve really got the bug to re-design this site.  The green is making me want to puke and that bikini-clad girl up there with the little smirk is irritating the crap out of me.  Problem is, I have NO ideas what-so-ever.  If anyone wants to throw out any ideas to help get the wheels turning, it would be much appreciated.  I’m thinking a new design might just give me the little kick I need to get writing again.

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The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

The Good

This week I had my first OB appointment for baby #2 (for whom I have no creative nickname because I suck).  All went well at the appointment and the doc gave me a predicted due date of March 28th, 2008.  I got to set up all of my appointments for the next few months, including the 20-week sonogram which I’m already anxious for.

Zach has been adjusting to his new day care a little bit better.  There are still some tears at drop-off, but he’s been having a good time during the day and is always happy and smiling when I pick him up.  I’m feeling much better about the whole situation now, although drop-off is still really hard in the mornings.

The Bad

Sometime during week six or so, the morning sickness and fatigue decided to set in.  The morning sickness occurs pretty much all day and night, but is manageable for the most part.  Uncomfortable, but manageable.  The fatigue is a bit harder to ignore as I’ve found myself falling asleep at my desk at work more than once.

Partially because of the new pregnancy (and fatigue) and partially because I was already considering it, I’ve decided to give up my Tot TV Watch blog at 451 Press.  It was a difficult decision to make because I really have enjoyed writing there over the last 8 months, but it was something I needed to do for myself and my family.  Between the extra time it was taking up and the stress of having to post on a schedule, I was having a hard time keeping up.

The Ugly

On top of the morning sickness that recently started, I have somehow managed to contract some kind of stomach bug.  I left work early on Thursday thinking that I was having the worst morning sickness I have ever experienced, only to quickly discover it was much more than that.  I’ve pretty much spent the last three days either in bed, in the bathroom, or lying on the futon watching TV.  It hasn’t been at all pleasant.  Hubby’s been trying to help out, but it is awfully hard explaining to a 2-year-old why mommy can’t just jump up whenever he wants her to.  When I tell him that mommy is sick, he replies with, “Zach sick too,” and curls up next to me.  I guess it’s not all bad.

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Apparently He's Learning Something New at Day Care

Each day is getting progressively worse at day care drop-off.  The last two days, Zach has started crying before we even get out of the car.  I pretty much have to drag him out and into the building.  Once we’re inside the screaming starts.  I have to walk away while he’s crying and screaming, “Mom, Mom, MOOOOOOOOMMMMMM!”

I know it will get better.  I know he will adjust but it is hard on me to watch him go through that every day.  By the time I get to the car, I’m practically in tears.

The good part is that he seems to be happy when I pick him up so the day can’t be going all that bad.  When I ask him if he likes his new school, he says yes.  When I ask him if he had fun at school he says yes.  Plus he seems to be actually learning some new things.

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