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Is The Weekend Here Yet?

Time for Cake (Again!)

I’m in serious need of a nap today.  For some reason this week has been really bad for sleeping.  If Hubby’s phone isn’t going off in the middle of the night, Zach is waking up, or I just can’t shut my brain off and actually sleep.  I don’t think I’ve gotten a solid night of sleep all week.

I’ve finally recovered from the fact that my baby is two and is most definitely not a baby anymore.  He has apparently decided that he must prove his two-year-old status by throwing tantrums and being completely disagreeable the last couple of days.  He even managed to get put in time out twice within about a 5-minute span last night.  The scary part is that I know it is only just beginning.  The hardest part for me is making sure that I stay consistent with the discipline when he starts acting up.

On Saturday, we are having Zach’s big birthday party with family and a few friends.  My sister is making a Blue’s Clues cake for him (because she’s much better at those things than I am).  Now I’m just hoping the weather clears up before then because I was planning on everything being outside and was going to set up a sprinkler for the kids.  Plus, we were planning on a little after party barbecue with just family afterwards.  If it rains it is really going to ruin the day.

In other news, I have decided that my car hates me.  Even after giving it brand new brakes and tires last week, it still was not happy.  On the way to work yesterday, the windshield wiper on the driver’s side quit working.  As in, it stopped swishing back and forth (and that is kind of necessary for clearing the windshield).  Fortunately, it was only sprinkling a bit so it wasn’t a big deal at the time.  On the way home, however, it was pouring.  It was not such a fun drive home last night.  By the time I got home I had a massive headache from trying to focus through the blurry windshield.  I’m just thankful that I made it there without having an accident.  My awesome Hubby managed to get it all fixed up for me though, which is good since it was pouring again this morning.

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One of Those Days

I got up this morning knowing it was going to be a long day. There was a lot of packing and furniture moving to be done at the office, plus we had plans to make a run up to my sister’s house after work to pick up some things and have dinner.

Zach was in a pretty good mood this morning and we actually made it out the door on time (our new morning schedule is working out nicely). On the way to day care I thought I heard the car making a strange sound, so I turned the radio down a bit so I could hear it better. There was a bit of a squeal when I hit the brakes. I’ve been wanting to get them checked for a while now, but it is one of those things that just gets pushed to the back of my mind easily. After I dropped Zach off, I turned the radio off and listened to my car. The sounds I heard were not pleasant. It was getting worse. I called Hubby and told him that I needed to get the car in right away to have the brakes checked.

I got to the office, made a few more phone calls, and then met my mom down at the auto shop. With a sick feeling in my stomach because I just knew this was going to cost way more than we have, I rode back to work with my mom.

I kept myself busy packing up my office. Everything is now packed with the exception of my laptop and phone. I have an empty desk and chair for one more day, and then I’ll be crammed into my mom’s office or wherever I can manage to find the space to work. I did at least manage to keep a small rolling table that I’ll be able to set my laptop on to work. The next few weeks should be interesting to say the least.

A little while later, the shop guy called me back to tell me the fabulous news. All four brakes needed done. The front brakes needed new pads and the rotors smoothed. The rear breaks needed pads and completely new rotors. And the best part? All of that was going to cost me a grand total of $659. Um, that would be $659 that I absolutely do not have. Great.

There really was no other option than to have the work done. I certainly wasn’t driving the car in that condition considering the precious cargo that I tote around every day. While I was dying inside a little, I told the guy to go ahead and do the work.

After an exhausting afternoon of packing, packing, and more packing, I went to pick up my car. With taxes and the addition of a very needed oil change, the final bill came up to more than $700. It is now sitting on a credit card and I have no idea how I’m going to pay for it. I seriously think it is time to start buying lottery tickets. But hey, at least I don’t have to worry about my brakes going out for a while!

After that I picked Zach up and we headed up to my sister’s house. We had a nice dinner with her and the kids, then loaded up the truck and headed home. We drove the Suburban up there because we needed to bring some folding tables back with us. Since the ghettoburban has no air conditioning, we were riding with the windows down. I had a couple of pictures that my sister asked me to scan sitting on the console. The air blowing in the windows was moving them around a bit, so I grabbed them and decided to hold onto them. All of a sudden, a big gust of wind blew through the ghettoburban and ripped one of the pictures out of my hand and straight out the window. I. LOST. ONE. OF. THE. PICTURES. These weren’t just any pictures. They were portraits. The one that blew out the window was of my sister’s three boys all together. I am the world’s worst sister and aunt.

I immediately called my sister to tell her what had happened. I honestly didn’t know whether to laugh or cry at that point. I felt so terrible about losing the picture. There was really no point in trying to backtrack and find it. We were going down the highway at probably 70 mph when it flew out the window. It was just gone. She didn’t seem nearly as upset about it as I was. I even offered to try to see if the photographer could do a reprint, but she said not to worry about it. I don’t think I would have taken it as well if I had been on the other end.

Now I’m just ready to go to bed and get this day over with. I hope that tomorrow is a much better day because I’m not ready for another one like this.

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3-in-1

Last Friday I had grand ideas of sitting around in my pj’s relaxing all weekend.  Then I started thinking about all of the things I needed to do, like grocery shopping so we could actually eat, and figuring out where exactly I was going to have Zach’s birthday party since I still hadn’t reserved the park shelter I wanted.  Suddenly, my lazy weekend turned into a very busy one.

I ended up spending Friday evening and much of Saturday running errands.  Saturday afternoon we went over to my mom’s to help her set up one of those 12 foot round pop up pools in her back yard.  Since we no longer have her apartment complex pool to invade, we figured we needed something for the kiddos to splash around in this summer.

While the pool was filling up, we took the men of the family (hubby, my brother, and my brother-in-law) out for a Father’s Day dinner.  Once our bellies were sufficiently full, we headed back to the house to watch a movie and monitor the water level of the pool.  I think it was around 11:00 by the time we ended up leaving.

We spent most of Sunday at my dad’s house.  Zach ended up taking an extra late nap and then refused to go to bed.  He was still awake at 11:15 when I finally went to bed and had an extremely crabby morning on Monday.  It was a great way to start out the week.

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I am really beginning to feel like my summer is over before it even really begins.  There are still two days to go before the "official" first day of summer and we already have plans for the next five weekends in a row.  Three of those weekend we’ll be traveling out of town and the other two will be consumed with a certain someone’s birthday party and some family activities.

Besides the traveling and other activities coming up in the next few weeks, it seems that my office space will be turned completely upside down for a while.  Beginning Monday, we’ll have a construction crew in here remodeling the office space.  When all is said and done it will be really nice, but in the meantime I am going to be a bit displaced.  My work space will be wherever I can manage to find a chair and a plug-in for my laptop.  If I’m lucky I’ll get to do some work from home where I have an actual desk.  It is going to be pretty hard to work in the office when I have no space to spread out.  The good news is that I will have a real office (with a door!) when it is all finished.

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I’ve been thinking for a while now about moving Zach into a big bed.  He’s doing okay in his toddler bed, but he’s been asking more and more lately to sleep in our big bed, even when we aren’t in it.  I don’t mind him sleeping with us really, but Hubby doesn’t like it.  That is probably because Hubby ends up with little feet kicking and pushing him all night while I end up with the head end all snuggled up with me.  He generally goes to sleep in his own bed, but ends up with us sometime during the night if/when he wakes up.

The alternative to him sleeping with us is that I stay in Zach’s room with him until he falls asleep again.  He’ll settle back down in his own bed as long as I stay there with him.  If I leave, he stands at the door and screams until I come back.  I’m not so fond of this alternative when it’s 3:00 in the morning and I just want to go back to sleep myself.  I have ended up falling asleep on his floor on more than one occasion and then waking up hours later with a sore back and neck.

My solution to this problem is to get him a big bed, probably a twin size for now.  It would give him more room to wiggle around in, feel more like mom and dad’s bed, and would give me space to lay down next to him for a while if he wakes in the night.

I realize that he’ll probably still want to crawl into bed with us from time to time, but we all might get a little more sleep this way.  Now I just have to figure out what style of bed I want and how in the heck I’m going to pay for it!

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Rush, Rush

I swear I am not abandoning this blog.  My mind just tends to get bogged down when I have a lot going on in real life and things have been a little busy lately.  Here’s a really quick update so that I can get this stuff out of my head and move on.

Friday morning hubby surprised me with five beautiful roses.  He got up early and dropped them off at my office before I got to work so that they would be there when I arrived.  Several days later they are still looking just as nice.

After work on Friday, we dropped Zach off at Grandma’s house to spend the night.  He was pretty excited about spending some time with Grandma and didn’t even seem upset that we were leaving him there.  After that, we went out to dinner all by ourselves, then went home, snuggled on the couch, and watched a movie.

Saturday morning it was off to Rockfest.  We spent all day out in the sun rocking out to some excellent bands.  Godsmack was by far the best show of the day, but I was really impressed by some of the others as well.  I’m definitely a new fan of Operator.  They were quite impressive.

We showed up at Grandma’s house around 11:30 that night to get Zach and he was very happy to have Mommy and Daddy back.  He ended up in bed with us and spent the entire night with his arm wrapped around my neck.  It was very sweet, but slightly uncomfortable at the same time.  I didn’t mind too much though because I really missed him while he was at Grandma’s.

Sunday things were back to normal (if things are ever really normal).  We went to church, then to my Dad’s for lunch.  After that we headed home where Zach and I both ended up napping for a bit.  Then the weekend was suddenly over.  It always seems to go by too fast.

Now it is back to the weekly grind and I’m just waiting for the next weekend to arrive.  Somewhere along the way during that busy weekend I started feeling quite a bit better.  I’m still not quite 100 percent, but definitely much better than I was this time last week.

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Quick Note

Apparently the video on the last post doesn’t show up in feed readers (at least not in Google Reader) so if you’re feeding, click on over and check out the “5 Years” video.

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